How much of your life do you choose? And how much is you walking down a path you’re on?
Before you roll into weekend plans, I challenge you to pause and think about what your intent is for a myriad of aspects of your life.
Did you choose, or did you happen upon:
- Where you live
- Who you live with
- What you eat
- What you do for work
- The people you hang out with
- What you do with your free time
- What you watch on TV/Netflix/Hulu, et al.
- What you read – books, magazines, newspaper, and online sites
- How you spend other time online and/or on your phone
- What you do for volunteer work
- How you present yourself – what you wear, how you hold yourself, when and how you speak; is your driver fashion, comfort, to make a statement, to blend in?
- How you decorate and keep your home – precise, comfortable, colors, textures, style, messy, neat, etc.
- How you tend to deal with others – speaking, listening, teaching, being directive, being kind, sharing knowledge, being funny, etc.
- How you get around – walking, biking, in a car, using mass transit, running, etc.

In Thomas Friedman’s new book,
I just finished reading Meik Wiking’s Little Book of Hygge. Here is Mike’s “Hygge Manifesto.”